Monday, December 20, 2004

Women and Their Choice of Partners

I think women tend to marry for two different reasons
(a lot of the time), and I think evolutionary theory
will back me up on this.

The first is because they find someone exciting who
"does it" for them; someone who excites them, or whom
they "just can't live without." They might have a
strong sexual and/or romantic relationship with this
person.

The second reason is because they find someone who
they think will make a good father and husband;
someone who might not be terribly sexually attractive,
or isn't as exciting as other men. However, they may
see this person as a good friend with good prospects
and a reputation for reliability.

Women (advice to my daughter) should only marry
someone who fits both criteria, and they should listen
to older more experienced people when trying to judge
whether or not their choice might be a good provider.
It is very difficult for a young person, especially
one who is in love, to accurately judge something like
that.

Men (advice to my sons) should clearly understand
which one they are, and shouldn't marry unless they
fill both rolls. They also need to listen to older,
more experienced people, and for the same reason.



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